Are divorce rates up because of Covid? The answer depends on who you ask.
Some experts report an increase.
The National Law Journal reports that divorce inquiries were up 34% by April of 2020. Mostly couples married less than five years. And marriages that were already rocky are pushed over the edge. Shelter-in-place, homeschooling, and arguments about parenting increased the stressors on already troubled relationships. Add financial stress and boredom, and nerves get raw. As a result, the Journal believes there will be an increase of 10% to 20% in the second half of 2020. https://www.natlawreview.com/article/divorce-rates-and-covid-19
On the other hand, some experts report a decline.
In contrast, professor Brad Wilcox, believes divorce rates have actually fallen. He credits the decrease to two likely factors. First, it was hard to file for divorce when the courts were closed. Second, in some marriages, hardship makes the relationship stronger. Couples developed a new appreciation for each other. Couples who live the “we before me” rather than the “me first” lifestyle Wilcox talks about in his book “We Before Me” have a better chance of surviving. https://news.virginia.edu/content/qa-professor-sets-record-straight-2020-divorce-rate
What is reality? Are divorce rates up because of Covid-19?
What is reality? Are divorce filings up because of Covid? Goff and Goff has seen an increase in inquiries over the last several months. It became easier to file once the shelter-in-place order was lifted. Until then, most court proceedings were on hold resulting in less filing. As a result divorce filings historically spread over many months, are now happening in a compressed timeframe. Only time will tell if the stresses of COVID kills more marriages. Right now, there doesn’t seem to be a real increase in North Louisiana. At least not yet.
If you and your spouse are on each other’s last nerve, get professional help. Marriage counseling can be very effective and it is always worth a try. Also, check out Dr. Wilcox’s book “We Before Me” (coming soon).
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